*Thursday, August 06, 2009*
Humans are complicated. We always want things our way. And if we dun, some will just admit to fate, while some will just use whatever it takes to get what they want. Some may argue that the process is important, whilst some may argue that the end point is always the most important factor. I used to believe doing things in the most proper or orthodox manner would get you to learn something and reach the destination. However, this is so wrong a concept. In some point of time, humans just err, and hurt other people in the process. The point is that, is the hurt done intentionally or unintentionally. If it was done unintentionally, did someone stood out to say a simple face to face sorry, or just blatant ignorance or just an email or msn and carry on with life?
Friendships are made and broken. In time to come, most people will realised that more friendships are broken than destroyed. This is where humans get lonely as they aged and lose more friends. Well, some may argue that at funerals, you will get to see your popularity based on your number of friends who turned up. Well, how would you know when you are already dead.
We only have a pair of hands. We try to reach out to grab as many friends that we can. However, there is only a limited number we can catch and hold on to. The point being, if one tries, are you taking the person for granted? Finally, once you are tired and you are aware that you are being treated like an extra, do you continue to try, or just stop?
I guess I am really tired and trying too hard to be a nice person. Thanks for those who has been there for me, through my most difficult times. You should know who you are. Maybe I should really be a jerk.
Well, CK is really getting very philophosical yet again, which is bad. But when CK emos, he will get up real fast. Meanwhile, hope whoever reads this post or blog cherish your friends and family and loved ones.
Chee Keong posted @ 2:07 AM
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